My Diaryland
12:42 p.m. - 2024-04-13 I'm feeling as rough as a badger's arse today with this lurgy and The Maid iMessaged me to say she isn't feeling so hot either. Staying in bed to rest and popping a few pharmaceuticals to manage the discomfort seems to be the best plan for both of us. From witnessing her being born and being the first person to hold her when she was just seconds old, to her first days at junior school and high school, the time has flown by at an incredible pace. The teenage years, oh yes I remember them so well and all that angst, the boy trouble, and the drama that came with those times. Then her first steps into working life, her University graduation, and the move into a professional career that will stand her in good stead for life. To see her settled and happy with a lovely guy who is part of the family now, all the little moments we shared that were just ours alone as father and daughter came flooding back to me. Such precious memories... I guess as a parent, I've only every wanted her to be healthy and happy in her life, to feel loved, and to support her no matter what decisions she chooses to make. I know I haven't always agreed with some of them, especially her early choices in boyfriends. Never date a musician I once told her in her teens, and what did she do? Yes, she goes out and finds one, and unfortunately he was a drummer. He was the boy that broke her heart for the first time. But she got over him, learned quickly about love, and that musicians don't always make a good choice if it's a steady, reliable partner that's the preferred option. So much of life isn't perfect, and so much is about learning from the mistakes and choices we make, and not carrying pain, bitterness or displeasure from the less than sensible decisions we've made into the next episode in our lives. Purge that pain I always say, and find your catharsis. If you don't, it will poison you slowly from the inside out. I have a business deal to conclude later today with a lovely girl musician called Hannah. She's coming along to visit me so I'd better get organised and try and not to look like i'm hanging by a thread. I wish I could just sleep for the rest of the day, but business is business and I can't let her down.
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